chore: set UPDATE_TEMPLATE_SSH_KEY

[benmccann]

I'm not sure this is everything we need to do, but it's at least part of it

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[benmccann]

actually, let's wait on this until post-launch. looking at what's on https://github.com/sveltejs/kit-template-default it may spoil the surprise