Starting with Java 8u252 (note: not 8u251) the ALPN layer has been backported from Java 11 back to Java 8.
The mandated use of Conscrypt with Jetty for HTTP/2 (in SpringBoot) is now no longer a requirement.
You can use Jetty and HTTP/2 without the need for a bootclasspath or an agent, as long as you use Java 8u252 or newer.
There is also a lack of documentation about how to disable the Conscrypt provider when using Jetty with SpringBoot.