Improve the Windows release build scripts

[zooba]

• Update to windows-2022 image
• Promote queue variables to parameters for better UI
• Structure build steps using parameters instead of conditions for simpler status display

Automerge-Triggered-By: GH:zooba

[miss-islington]

@zooba: Status check is done, and it's a failure ❌ .

[zooba]

Failure is just a flakey asyncio test, unrelated to this change.