[SPARK-32468][SS][TESTS][FOLLOWUP] Provide "default.api.timeout.ms" as well when specifying "request.timeout.ms" on replacing "default.api.timeout.ms"

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This patch is a follow-up to fill the gap in apache#29272 which missed to also provide `default.api.timeout.ms` as well.  apache#29272 unintentionally changed the behavior on Kafka side timeout which is incompatible with the test timeout. (`default.api.timeout.ms` gets default value which is 60 seconds, longer than test timeout.)

### Why are the changes needed?

We realized the PR for SPARK-32468 (apache#29272) doesn't work as we expect. See apache#29272 (comment) for more details.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No, as it only touches the tests.

### How was this patch tested?

Will trigger builds from Jenkins or Github Action multiple time and confirm.

Closes apache#29343 from HeartSaVioR/SPARK-32468-FOLLOWUP.

Authored-by: Jungtaek Lim (HeartSaVioR) <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: HyukjinKwon <[email protected]>

Author: HeartSaVioR

external/kafka-0-10-sql/src/test/scala/org/apache/spark/sql/kafka010/KafkaContinuousSourceSuite.scala

@@ -194,6 +194,7 @@ class KafkaContinuousSourceTopicDeletionSuite extends KafkaContinuousTest {
       .option("kafka.bootstrap.servers", testUtils.brokerAddress)
       .option("kafka.metadata.max.age.ms", "1")
       .option("kafka.request.timeout.ms", "3000")
+      .option("kafka.default.api.timeout.ms", "3000")
       .option("subscribePattern", s"$topicPrefix-.*")
       .option("failOnDataLoss", "false")
 

external/kafka-0-10-sql/src/test/scala/org/apache/spark/sql/kafka010/KafkaDontFailOnDataLossSuite.scala

@@ -224,6 +224,7 @@ class KafkaSourceStressForDontFailOnDataLossSuite extends StreamTest with KafkaM
       .option("kafka.bootstrap.servers", testUtils.brokerAddress)
       .option("kafka.metadata.max.age.ms", "1")
       .option("kafka.request.timeout.ms", "3000")
+      .option("kafka.default.api.timeout.ms", "3000")
       .option("subscribePattern", "failOnDataLoss.*")
       .option("startingOffsets", "earliest")
       .option("failOnDataLoss", "false")

external/kafka-0-10-sql/src/test/scala/org/apache/spark/sql/kafka010/KafkaMicroBatchSourceSuite.scala

@@ -364,6 +364,7 @@ abstract class KafkaMicroBatchSourceSuiteBase extends KafkaSourceSuiteBase {
       .option("kafka.bootstrap.servers", testUtils.brokerAddress)
       .option("kafka.metadata.max.age.ms", "1")
       .option("kafka.request.timeout.ms", "3000")
+      .option("kafka.default.api.timeout.ms", "3000")
       .option("subscribePattern", s"$topicPrefix-.*")
       .option("failOnDataLoss", "false")
 
@@ -401,6 +402,7 @@ abstract class KafkaMicroBatchSourceSuiteBase extends KafkaSourceSuiteBase {
       .option("kafka.bootstrap.servers", testUtils.brokerAddress)
       .option("kafka.metadata.max.age.ms", "1")
       .option("kafka.request.timeout.ms", "3000")
+      .option("kafka.default.api.timeout.ms", "3000")
       .option("startingOffsets", "earliest")
       .option("subscribePattern", s"$topicPrefix-.*")
 
@@ -590,6 +592,7 @@ abstract class KafkaMicroBatchSourceSuiteBase extends KafkaSourceSuiteBase {
       .option("kafka.bootstrap.servers", testUtils.brokerAddress)
       .option("kafka.metadata.max.age.ms", "1")
       .option("kafka.request.timeout.ms", "3000")
+      .option("kafka.default.api.timeout.ms", "3000")
       .option("subscribe", topic)
       // If a topic is deleted and we try to poll data starting from offset 0,
       // the Kafka consumer will just block until timeout and return an empty result.
@@ -1861,6 +1864,7 @@ class KafkaSourceStressSuite extends KafkaSourceTest {
         .option("subscribePattern", "stress.*")
         .option("failOnDataLoss", "false")
         .option("kafka.request.timeout.ms", "3000")
+        .option("kafka.default.api.timeout.ms", "3000")
         .load()
         .selectExpr("CAST(key AS STRING)", "CAST(value AS STRING)")
         .as[(String, String)]