Support using offset index in `ParquetRecordBatchStream` when pushing down `RowFilter`

[thinkharderdev]

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With https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/pull/2552/files, using the offset index to prune page IO in ParquetRecordBatchStream should be stabilized. Once this is release in arrow-rs 23.0.0 we should allow users to enable offset indexes in ParquetScanOptions

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[Ted-Jiang]

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[Ted-Jiang]

@thinkharderdev If you not starting this one, could you plz assign this to me?

[thinkharderdev]

@Ted-Jiang It's all yours :)