allow node-gyp v10

[branchvincent]

Trying #1788 again, but addressing #1788 (comment) by not changing the node requirement

In case you do decide to drop support for older nodes, node-gyp supports the following:

• ^8: >= 10.12.0
• ^9: ^12.22 || ^14.13 || >=16
• ^10: ^16.14.0 || >=18.0.0
• ^11: ^18.17.0 || >=20.5.0

Fixes #1752

[itemir]

@branchvincent, thank you for your persistence in fixing this issue. It emerged as a blocker for our Node-based plugin on an embedded system after the underlying system was upgraded, preventing new users from installing. To mitigate the problem, we published sqlite3-gyp based on your code as a temporary workaround. I do hope this gets merged into the main branch soon so we can remove that workaround. Thank you again—this PR made a significant difference for us.