chore: allow to dispatch publish with tag override

[DamianOsipiuk]

Allows to manually dispatch publish workflow, while also giving ability to override tag.
This is useful for minor or patch pre-releases, when we want to first test some functionality before releasing it as a regular version.

1. merge changes that you want to test to beta branch (ideally should be in sync with main)
2. trigger workflow manually from the actions tab overriding tag to a version higher with suffix. Ex v4.0.11-beta.0 and branch to beta (available only to maintainers)

[codesandbox-ci]

This pull request is automatically built and testable in CodeSandbox.

To see build info of the built libraries, click here or the icon next to each commit SHA.

Latest deployment of this branch, based on commit 259bba5:

Sandbox	Source
@tanstack/query-example-react-basic	Configuration
@tanstack/query-example-react-basic-typescript	Configuration

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #4014 (259bba5) into main (eab6e2c) will increase coverage by 0.45%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #4014      +/-   ##
==========================================
+ Coverage   96.36%   96.81%   +0.45%     
==========================================
  Files          45       57      +12     
  Lines        2281     2666     +385     
  Branches      640      782     +142     
==========================================
+ Hits         2198     2581     +383     
- Misses         80       83       +3     
+ Partials        3        2       -1     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/react/useMutation.ts
src/react/logger.ts
src/core/mutation.ts
src/core/query.ts
src/core/retryer.ts
src/core/mutationCache.ts
src/react/useIsMutating.ts
src/react/utils.ts
src/devtools/utils.ts
src/core/focusManager.ts
... and 92 more

Help us with your feedback. Take ten seconds to tell us how you rate us. Have a feature suggestion? Share it here.