check_pie: match nsd support

[jaredmauch]

• The fedora build includes PIE and this is an attempt to preserve that behavior when building NSD, not sure if this will cause a specific problem for other use cases, but wanted to contribute this upstream
• Makefile - follow dependencies of object files so we will rebuild if the Makefile is updated with -fPIE for example

[wcawijngaards]

The ci fails because the m4 script is not available. This needs to be imported to the repo. Otherwise the change is a nice feature. I think makefile dependencies on changes to the makefile are probably not so good, there already was trouble, due to the simd variability, in the makefile to build the dependencies too often, but perhaps but this change is not bad for that. Probably harmless, but makefile changes is not the mechanism I am looking to add to the build system. I can merge it though, it needs a couple of fixes with that.