Upgrade to Ninja 1.13 for main, rebranch and next

[edymtt]

Addresses rdar://126297330

[edymtt]

@swift-ci please smoke test

[compnerd]

@etcwilde wasn't there some rare issue that we had observed a few instances of with the 1.13 release?

[etcwilde]

It was with 1.12.x. I've been living on 1.13.1 for a few months now and haven't seen issues, but I'd like confirmation that it has been tested by a few others before we bump the version for everyone.

1.12.x had a few issues that were fixed in 1.13.x that may be related:

• Ninja triggers GLIBCXX assertion and crashes ninja-build/ninja#2472
• Consistent ninja crash when my build folder has a specific path ninja-build/ninja#2309

Basically, there was an out-of-bounds access in the ninja dependency graph tracking file.
They were fixed in ninja-build/ninja#2489.

[edymtt]

I have been using this version lately, and not hitting any issue.

I've also run rebuilds overnight on macOS and Linux, simulating changing the name of a diagnostics used in TypeCheckAnalysis.cpp and rebulding bin/swift-frontend afterwards, and did not hit any issue.