[3.14] gh-131591: Make --without-remote-debug work (GH-135925) (GH-135931)

gh-131591: Make --without-remote-debug work (GH-135925)

The feature is checked using `defined(Py_REMOTE_DEBUG)`; defining
the macro (even as `0`) enables it.
(cherry picked from commit c2f2fd4)

Co-authored-by: Petr Viktorin <[email protected]>

Author: miss-islington

configure

@@ -7168,8 +7168,6 @@ if test "$with_remote_debug" = yes; then
     [Define if you want to enable remote debugging support.])
   AC_MSG_RESULT([yes])
 else
-  AC_DEFINE([Py_REMOTE_DEBUG], [0],
-    [Define if you want to enable remote debugging support.])
   AC_MSG_RESULT([no])
 fi