feat(node): Bump opentelemetry instrumentation to latest version (#12028)

To ensure all instrumentation is using the newest version of
`@opentelemetry/instrumentation` that has proper ESM support etc.

Author: mydea

packages/aws-serverless/package.json

@@ -63,8 +63,8 @@
     "access": "public"
   },
   "dependencies": {
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-aws-lambda": "0.40.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-aws-sdk": "0.40.0",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-aws-lambda": "0.41.0",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-aws-sdk": "0.41.0",
     "@sentry/core": "8.0.0",
     "@sentry/node": "8.0.0",
     "@sentry/types": "8.0.0",

packages/node/package.json

@@ -58,20 +58,20 @@
     "@opentelemetry/context-async-hooks": "^1.23.0",
     "@opentelemetry/core": "^1.24.1",
     "@opentelemetry/instrumentation": "^0.51.1",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-connect": "0.35.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-express": "0.35.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-fastify": "0.35.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-graphql": "0.39.0",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-connect": "0.36.0",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-express": "0.38.0",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-fastify": "0.36.1",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-graphql": "0.40.0",
     "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-hapi": "0.38.0",
     "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-http": "0.51.1",
     "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-ioredis": "0.40.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-koa": "0.39.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-mongodb": "0.39.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-mongoose": "0.37.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-mysql": "0.37.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-mysql2": "0.37.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-nestjs-core": "0.36.0",
-    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-pg": "0.40.0",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-koa": "0.40.0",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-mongodb": "0.43.0",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-mongoose": "0.38.1",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-mysql": "0.38.1",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-mysql2": "0.38.1",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-nestjs-core": "0.37.1",
+    "@opentelemetry/instrumentation-pg": "0.41.0",
     "@opentelemetry/resources": "^1.23.0",
     "@opentelemetry/sdk-trace-base": "^1.23.0",
     "@opentelemetry/semantic-conventions": "^1.23.0",