[master] Update dependencies from dotnet/runtime dotnet/efcore (#26188)

[master] Update dependencies from dotnet/runtime dotnet/efcore


 - Use non-obsolete `GetColumnName(...)` overload
- react to EF breaking change

 - Add missing `using`

 - Quarantine `CanInvokeDotNetMethods()` test

- #26288

 - Quarantine another test
- see #26306

Author: dotnet-maestro[bot]