[SPARK-32523][SQL] Override alter table in JDBC dialects

[huaxingao]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Override the default SQL strings for

• ALTER TABLE ADD COLUMN
• ALTER TABLE RENAME COLUMN
• ALTER TABLE DROP COLUMN
• ALTER TABLE UPDATE COLUMN TYPE
• ALTER TABLE UPDATE COLUMN NULLABILITY

in the following JDBC dialects according to official documentation:

• DB2
• Derby
• MS SQL Server
• MYSQL
• Oracle
• Postgres
• Teradata

Why are the changes needed?

To have correct implementation of alter table for all supported JDBC dialects.

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No

How was this patch tested?

Manually check the SQL strings are built correctly

[SparkQA]

Test build #128031 has finished for PR 29581 at commit 3ae04d4.

• This patch fails due to an unknown error code, -9.
• This patch merges cleanly.
• This patch adds no public classes.

[huaxingao]

retest this please

[SparkQA]

Test build #128049 has finished for PR 29581 at commit 3ae04d4.

• This patch passes all tests.
• This patch merges cleanly.
• This patch adds no public classes.

[huaxingao]

cc @MaxGekk @cloud-fan @viirya

[cloud-fan]

Can we have docker tests for these databases with JDBC v2?

[huaxingao]

Can we have docker tests for these databases with JDBC v2?
Sorry, busy days. Didn't have a chance to work on this yet, but I will.

[MaxGekk]

I propose to open separate PR per every supported dialect with docker integration tests. Here is the PR for the Oracle dialect: #29912